The Therapy Mom
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Life Transitions

Therapy for Older Adults

Retirement, health changes and loss can ask a lot of one person.

Who This Is For

When familiar roles and routines change

Retirement may leave more time than you expected, while health changes can take away choices you used to make easily. You may be missing friends or caring for a spouse while wondering who is looking after you.

My medical social work background includes a great deal of experience with older adults, and I hold an active New York State license as a Licensed Nursing Home Administrator (LNHA). I have spent years supporting older adults and their families. We can talk about dependence and loss without explaining every feeling by age.

What We Work On

What we can talk about

Retirement and purpose

We can discuss the routine, people or sense of usefulness you miss. We consider what matters in this different week.

Health and changing independence

I listen to frustration, worry and requests for help. Medical assessment and treatment belong with your care professionals; therapy addresses the emotional experience around them.

Loss and caregiving

Friends may be gone, or a spouse needs more care. We discuss grief, fatigue and asking relatives for specific help.

A move to more care

Moving into assisted living or a nursing home, or watching a spouse make that move, can bring grief, relief and worry at once. My nursing home administrator background helps me understand what that change can mean for a whole family.

How I Work

Practice that fits the difficult moments

CBT

CBT helps us examine thoughts such as needing help means I am a burden. We consider your preferences and requests without measuring worth by independence.

DBT

DBT skills can help with frustration, sadness and family disagreements. We practice naming what is difficult, tolerating a hard moment and making a clear request, without asking you to hide the feeling.

More about my approach

What Sessions Look Like

Start with what happened this week

Where
Virtual, from anywhere in New York State
Length
45 to 50 minutes
When
Day, evening and weekend times

All sessions are by video while you are located in New York State. We can discuss setup during the consultation. A trusted person may help you connect, then leave so you can speak privately. We clarify their role and any participation with you rather than assume access.

Support can respect independence and your need for help.

What Can Shift

  • Putting a preference into words before a family decision.
  • Making time for grief alongside practical responsibilities.
  • Asking for one specific caregiving break.

These are hopes we work toward together, not guarantees.

Life Transitions

Getting comfortable with video

Before the conversation

We can discuss a device, sound and a private place to sit. You do not have to pretend the setup is familiar if it is new.

Once you are connected

Tell me if hearing, comfort or the pace is a problem. We discuss adjustments and whether video fits.

If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988, or call 911.

Fees in Brief

$175

Individual Therapy, 45 to 50 minutes

Individual work is $175; family work with 2 or more members is $195. A free consultation can cover setup and privacy.

All sessions are private pay. Superbills available for out-of-network reimbursement. I am in network with Northwell Direct.

See all rates and the cancellation policy

Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Can a family member help me connect?
Yes, we can discuss setup help. Their help with technology does not automatically include participation in your private conversation.
Do you manage medical care?
No. I am a social worker, not a prescriber. I offer therapy around feelings, caregiving and relationships alongside your medical care.
Can family sessions be considered?
Yes, if they fit the concern and participation is appropriate. We discuss who attends and what the shared conversation is for.

Tell me which part of the week feels hardest.

We can discuss your concerns and whether video therapy is a comfortable starting point.