The Therapy Mom
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Specialties

OCD in Teens and Young Adults

Intrusive thoughts are a symptom. They are not who you are.

Who This Is For

For teens, college students and young adults

Maybe you check the stove five times, redo homework until it feels just right, or replay a conversation for hours to make sure you didn't say something wrong.

OCD can make you feel like a bad or strange person. You are neither. I work with teens ages 12 and up and young adults located in New York State, and with the parents who want to help.

What We Work On

Patterns we work with

Checking

Locks, appliances, messages or reassurance from others.

Counting and order

Needing things to be even, aligned or done a set number of times.

Just right feelings

Redoing tasks until the discomfort fades.

Mental replaying

Reviewing past events in your head looking for certainty.

Avoidance

Skipping places, people or tasks that set off the thoughts.

How I Work

Changing how you respond to the thoughts

CBT

We map your cycle, look at what the compulsions are protecting you from and practice gradually responding differently, at a pace you agree to.

DBT

DBT skills help you tolerate the discomfort that shows up when you don't do the compulsion, and manage stress around school and friends.

More about my approach

What Sessions Look Like

Fitting therapy around classes

Where
Virtual, from anywhere in New York State
Length
45 to 50 minutes
When
Day, evening and weekend times

Video sessions work from a dorm room, a car or home. We can meet in the day, evening or on weekends. Alongside OCD itself, we talk about school, friendships and growing independence.

The goal is a life where OCD gets less of your time and attention.

What Can Shift

  • Less time spent on rituals
  • More confidence handling uncertainty
  • Room for classes, friends and the things you enjoy

These are hopes we work toward together, not guarantees.

Understanding OCD

The cycle

  1. 1

    Intrusive thought

  2. 2

    Anxiety

  3. 3

    Compulsion

  4. 4

    Short relief

A thought arrives, anxiety spikes, and a compulsion brings short relief. That relief teaches the brain to repeat the loop. Therapy works on loosening it.

How parents can be involved

For teens, parents may join some sessions to learn how to respond to reassurance seeking and how to support practice at home. Young adults decide how much family involvement they want.

Fees in Brief

$175

Individual therapy, 45 to 50 minutes

Weekly virtual sessions for individual work focusing on counseling, coping skill development and goal achievement.

Sessions that include parents and teen together are family sessions, at $195.

All sessions are private pay. Superbills available for out-of-network reimbursement. I am in network with Northwell Direct.

See all rates and the cancellation policy

Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Does having intrusive thoughts mean I want them to happen?
No. Intrusive thoughts often feel upsetting precisely because they go against what you value.
Can I keep seeing you while at college?
Yes, as long as you are located in New York State during sessions.
How much will parents know?
We talk about privacy at the start. For younger teens, parents are usually more involved. Young adults set their own limits.
Which methods do you use?
I use CBT and DBT, explained in plain language and practiced together in session.

A first step for you or your teen.

Questions? Book a free consultation.